Well, we decided that since we were down, we would go to the Lindsay Reunion in Heber. This is my paternal grandmother's (who died before my parents were married) side of the family. I
t was so great! (I don't know that Nels, my children, my SIL Kelly, or niece and nephews would agree, but it was a great experience for me!) I really enjoyed talking to my dad's uncle and cousins. I was able to learn a lot about that side of my family - a lot that I didn't know - and it was really exciting.
LIKE every line on that side of the family either came through Nauvoo with the Saints or were in Winter Quarters and Council Bluffs. That's cool. We read the history of one grandmother who was in the Martin Handcart Company as a little girl and whose hair was frozen to the ground nearly every morning when she woke up. We were able to see (and go into the bathroom of :) the home that my great-great grandfather James Lindsay built. See the home(s) and land where my grandmother grew up. The following Tuesday I went up to my great-uncle Ben Lindsay's home and was able to get some copies of histories and talk to my dad's cousin, Karen, about helping her compile a Lindsay book with all the histories that she's collected in it. I'm super excited. ---
--- As an aside, I also learned another little tidbit of trivial information that means a lot to me. I realized while talking to my Uncle Ben that he has ENORMOUS hands. :) As I sat there looking at them - I realized that they look exactly the same as my dad's (other than obviously being older! :). The shape of them is just like his. And MINE are the same shape as my dad's hands (and only slightly smaller). The palms, the fingers. I've always been kind of self-conscious of my hands. I was not blessed with the small, pretty hands that my sister Melissa has, that my mom has. I have big, strong hands with long, thick fingers. I've always thought that they looked like man-hands! :) LOL! Last week I realized that these were probably the same hands that my grandmother had --- or at the very least, a gene that SHE passed to me. I feel . . . I don't know . . . strangely more connected to her. (((happy sigh))) :)
Anyway, I just wanted to share a couple of pictures that I've been able to collect this past week. I'm planning to gather pictures of my family and Nels's as well and make a big collage wall in my living room with them. For any of you (like within my family) who don't have these photos, I just wanted to share them with you.
My dad's family (all but my oldest aunt who was married by then).
My dad is the youngest boy - on the right.
The only professional picture I have
ever seen of my Grandparents together.
My grandmother's family had THREE
sets of twins!!! (Out of their 11 children!)
My grandma is the young girl
on the right. - They would refer to
themselves as the "Pairs" and the "Spares"! :)
(Before downloading any of these photos, email me. I'm going to continue playing around to see if I can get the colors any better.)
Over the past 4 years or so I have developed a deep love of family history. The verse in Malachi is so true! "And he shall turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the heart of the children to their fathers . . ." I have truly felt the power of the Spirit of Elijah. For quite a while I would get so consumed in finding names and searching out "our kindred dead" that it would take up hours of my day . . . "one more minute" would turn into hours. It didn't take very long to realize that this kind of family history work is just not practical for a young mother . . . or at least not for ME. :) I put away my books and pedigree charts and said, "This will just have to wait for another time in my life." Which sadly is not any time soon. Truly, it does make me feel sad and I continually feel a yearning toward it.
Over the past year or so, I have come to the realization that although I can't do some of those parts of family history work, there is still a lot that I CAN do! I'm going to work hard to find histories and compile them for others in my family. I'm going to try to gather other information like pictures and such that I can also help distribute to family members. It is amazing the love that you can come to feel for those who have gone before you. The way that learning about them can complete you and help you to understand yourself better.
I know that sometimes when you think about family history you envision your parents or grandparents sitting around computers or visiting cemeteries (or you remember being a young girl sitting and sitting and sitting and wandering around Temple Square for HOURS waiting and waiting and waiting for your mother - who is at the Family History Library - who said that she was only going to be "just a minute" :) and you think - that is not for me! I'll do it when I'm old and grey. When I have nothing else to do but think of dead people . . . Well, I'm here to tell you that it is for now. It can bring such joy into your life! Whether you are a member of the LDS church or not. There is SO MUCH information available to us now! Through the Church and through hundreds of other websites. A New York Times article from 2001 said that the two most frequented types of sites on the internet are porn and family history. :) Amazing isn't it? Those things that kill the spirit and those that enlarge and enliven it! So tally-ho friends and family - go find your ancestors! They are waiting for you -- and believe it or not, you're waiting to know them as well!
P.S. - For any of Nels' family: I've got a copy of your parents' wedding picture - the one that we gave them for their anniversary last year - that I would be happy to send out to any of you! Just email me and let me know the size that you would like. Right now it is in a square format, I'm sure that I can crop it to whatever dimensions you desire. :)
